Things to Learn (...學習中)

Couldn't sleep last night, I woke up at 2 am . A silent night usually can help a person recall details. Guess that's called self-examine?

Honey, according to all the pieces from what you said during dinner, I realize you were very busy throughout the whole day- had a lunch meeting, 2 following meetings with other two clients. When back to office at 5pm you finally able to check today's email, plus the accumulated email carried over from the holiday.

Seem to be impatient talking to you on the phone this afternoon. Don't remember the topic we were talking about, but clearly remember my mood wasn't good. I showed the unhappy face when trying to remind you to call the credit card company. On the other side of the phone, I knew you did not pay much attention to me due to reading tons of email.

Between couples, argument usually starts with such a little thing. Each individual has its own path and pace from where he/she comes from. If don't try to make a junction, it's so easy to create fights.

In my opinion, simply loving each other cannot carry two different individuals to one entity. Couples should, and have to be thoughtful to sustain the marriage.

Fortunately we didn't make any argument for the stupid credit card thing-it seems too trivial to angry with. However, what if I am not patient enough to deal with you? what if you are not careful about my feelings and frustrations? I cannot help but worry a little bit, will we handle the situation well when next month need to tentatively apart ?

Just for now I have your shoulder if need to rely on and you have my hug if need to lay down. The most happiest thing for a day is, looking at you sleeping aside and hearing continuous snore. On top of daily errands, these are the sweetest evidence showing we have each other.
Got to keep this image in mind and deeply store it. While I go to Seattle and you are in San Jose, this is something I will not let it overwrite by the argument and fights over the distance.
Honey, I anticipate it is a tough thing but let's give it a try.